We’ve all made split-second decisions that have changed our lives. Sometimes, it’s as simple as the butterfly effect � one tiny choice leading to a million other that either guide you one way or another.
Daily, we make decisions that will shape the rest of our lives, and yet we don’t often stop to think about it.
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